A new start in all respects...
- Heartbeatwords● Gabriela Lutz
- 30. Dez. 2023
- 4 Min. Lesezeit
Finding the courage to accept change
Starting over in all aspects can be an exciting and frightening journey. It requires the courage to break away from old habits and ways of thinking and venture into unknown territory.
Whether professionally or privately - a new start offers the opportunity to develop personally and lead a fulfilling life.
In this article I want to shed light on why it is sometimes necessary to make a fresh start, as well as some steps that can help you successfully manage a new start in all respects.
Why a restart?
A fresh start gives us the chance to correct old mistakes and realize our dreams.
Steps for a successful reboot
INTERNAL REFLECTION
Before you start over, it's important to reflect on yourself and find out what you really want. I am aware that self-reflection is one of the most difficult tasks and a supreme discipline of self-care. Being honest with yourself, mirroring yourself and not catapulting the other person with questions like in an interview will challenge you in a new way. But it will also be a liberation for you, a rendezvous with your own self.
Are you wondering what makes you unhappy and how you can make positive changes. Set yourself clear and realistic goals for your new start.
LET GO
A fresh start means letting go of old habits and ways of thinking.
Be prepared to let go of things that no longer serve you,
be it old beliefs, toxic relationships or unhealthy habits. Make room for new experiences and perspectives.
ACCEPT CHANGE
Change can be scary, but it is also necessary to move forward. Be ready to break out of your comfort zone and explore new possibilities. Accept that not everything will be perfect and that there may be setbacks. See these as learning opportunities and come out stronger.
USE RESOURCES
In order to successfully manage your restart, you should use the available resources. This could be books, courses, mentors or experts in the field. Find out about the topic that interests you and get professional support to achieve your goals. Or you are so strong and have internalized your will to the point that you can tackle it yourself! It is important to implement the change every day, no matter what, in order to reach your goal.
PATIENCE AND PERSEVERANCE
A restart requires patience and perseverance. Change doesn't happen overnight, so be patient with yourself and stick to your goals. There will be ups and downs, but don't be discouraged. Keep your focus on your restart, even when things get difficult.
AS A RÉSUMÉ OR SUMMARY FOR YOU
A fresh start in all aspects can be a transformative experience. It gives us the opportunity to break out of old patterns, develop further and lead a fulfilling life. It requires courage, self-reflection and the willingness to accept change.
Be ready to step out of your comfort zone and explore new possibilities. Use your existing resources and remain patient and persistent, or one of my mottos for years:
Stay subtly persistent, this time with yourself!
A fresh start in all aspects can enrich your life and open up new perspectives for you. Dare to take the first step and make your own new beginning!
A lot of doors have been closed for me in the last 4 years. It's not that I closed these myself, no, there are actually external influences that you can't influence even in your subconscious, unfortunately. I had to accept it with difficulty...
Lost my first business, a blackmail with bad romance scamming behind me, a change of apartment after 17 years, going to the social welfare office and (yes, I'm not ashamed to mention this here), operations and, among other things, the resulting health problems .
However, new paths opened up again because I never lost sight of my tireless courage, will and my innate fighting nature, even if I felt really bad at times!!!
New friendships, new job prospects, new website, new projects, new strength, new resilience, new attitude to life!
Believe me, you can do it too, I want to encourage you with these honest lines not to and never to lose faith in yourself!
Yes, it takes a lot of time with yourself, a lot of withdrawing, not wanting to dance at all weddings anymore. That is a good thing. Take this time just for yourself, undisturbed and DON'T CARE what others think and say, because the people in the headlines understand the least about what you are going through, you are stronger than chatter from ignorant others!
If you need support, be it in writing, designing a website for a new start. Or a mentor from your own experience, let me know. Even though I'm not a psychologist, which is certainly helpful, I can accompany you to get out of the SWAMP OF LIFE through self-empowerment with your hidden resources.
Since I don't just write texts, you are also welcome to listen to my podcast on this topic (coming out today around Saturday evening, December 30th, 2023) and other topics, either on my website for free at www.heartbeatwords.com/podcast or via
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I'm really looking forward to hearing from you! Just get in touch!
or +41 78 850 08 78
Now I wish you a successful start to a fabulous, positive 2024!
Just have a good time!
Warmly and see you soon, your Gabriela❣
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